07, September 2020

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Guidelines For Parenting (3)

‘Train up a child in the way he should go [and in keeping with his individual gift or bent].’ Proverbs 22:6 AMPC

The Bible says, ‘Train up a child in the way he should go [and in keeping with his individual gift or bent], and when he is old he will not depart from it.’ The truth of the matter is that while certain universal principles apply to all children, no two are alike, and it’s a mistake to treat them as if they were. In fact, here are two of the most common blunders you can make as a parent:

(1) Trying to mould your child into what you used to be. Just because you were a star athlete in school doesn’t mean your children will want to follow in your footsteps. And just because you got straight A’s in school doesn’t necessarily mean your children are capable of a set of top results. While you should never tolerate or reward laziness, you need to accept that not all children are equally gifted athletically or intellectually.

(2) Trying to make them into what you want them to be. Don’t try to relive your life through your kids. You had your chance, and just because you didn’t make the grade in your chosen profession doesn’t mean you should force your son or daughter in that direction.

The Bible says, ‘Train up a child in the way he should go [and in keeping with his individual gift or bent],’ not necessarily the way you would go, or want him or her to go. There are three hallmarks of healthy self-esteem you should continually strive to teach your children:

(1) Know who you are

(2) Like who you are

(3) Be who you are.

SoulFood: Eze 16:53–19:14, Luke 20:20–26, Ps 27, Pro 20:5–6

The Word for Today is authored by Bob and Debby Gass and published under licence from UCB International Copyright © 2020

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